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Florida Church Plan To Burn Qu'ran On 911

According to source a church in Florida is planning to burn the Qu'ran to celebrate 911. Excerpt:

General David Petraeus has condemned a Florida church's plans to burn Qurans this week, warning that the scene "could endanger troops" in Afghanistan.

"It could endanger troops and it could endanger the overall effort," Gen. Petraeus said in an interview with The Wall Street Journal. "It is precisely the kind of action the Taliban uses and could cause significant problems. Not just here, but everywhere in the world we are engaged with the Islamic community."

The Gainesville, Florida-based Dove World Outreach Center announced plans to burn copies of the Quran on church grounds to mark the ninth anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks, but has been denied a permit to set a bonfire. The church, which made headlines last year after distributing T-shirts that said "Islam is of the Devil," has vowed to proceed with the burning."

 

This is the most ignorant thing I have heard Burning a Holy book is not the answer to a personal struggle. It is a personal struggle because you have to take into your own hands to try an understand Islam.

Becoming The woman inside

There is the person you present, and the person you are. Usually we hid from the person we are. For what ever reason most woman never reveal her whole self to anyone. Why do woman have such a hard time being themselves and not what is expected of them. As a woman we are mothers, wives, professionals, and feminine.

Therefore, what ever she does she has to always keep these things in mind. In other words a woman can not live life without her role in the back of her mind. It is not excepted if a woman presents herself as anything other than what society may perceive a woman to be. We may find it hard to put ourselves first over all the many jobs she holds. When we say the word woman what type of things come to mind? Do we think of woman as being strong, independent, loving, sexy, or maybe we think of mom.

What ever it is that comes to mind a woman are often put into boxes and unless she believes in herself she allows herself to stay there. There are truths in everything you think of a woman but there are as false hoods. Many woman are afraid to let the woman inside out because she may not be excepted. She also has the guilt of not completing her role in life.

She runs the risk of being judged. Although, there are some things a woman should not do most of us have a loving person living inside waiting to get out. Most woman present themselves as a woman of society not as the woman inside. Your true soul mate live inside of you. It is time to bring her out, and enjoy life.

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Never Lose sight of the goal

Coming into a relationship people  have a long list of things they want from the relationship. They start off strong being considerate, showing respect, and communicating. However, somewhere along the way we get comfortable. We don't focus on the important things that are needed to maintain a relationship. Never allow yourself to get to comfortable in a relationship. No matter how long you have been together.

The quest to have a loving relationship should never stop just because your in that relationship, or in love. The more you invest into your relationship the more you will get out of it. I have heard many people say " I know him/her like a book." How is that when the words change as you turn the pages? You can never fully know a person.

Therefore, that is what makes relationships so special because it is a journey.As we put our mates, or ourselves into a box we ruin the relationship. This is usually when couples start to argue because someone has gotten comfortable. Someone has told themselves " I have seen enough I'm in love."  You ever notice that in relationships you are always falling in love with your mate.

We often say I am in love, but the more you invest the more you fall. It doesn't stop , or it shouldn't stop. Don't limit your relationship to a few rewarding moments. Allow it to blossom! This is the point in a relationship when we all have to know how to follow, and not lead. You have to not be afraid to follow your heart at some point.

If you think having your guard up is not allowing someone else in it's not. Having a guard up wont allow you into your own heart. How does it feel to not have access to your own heart? This behavior leaves you more vulnerable than any other. Allow yourself to be open to express, and receive love. While we may be creatures of habits we tend to change those habits along the way.

If you find that your relationship has become rutine someone has gotten too comfortable. We lack excitment in our relationships because we take the excitment out of it. Ask yourself a year into your relationship " are you still excited when lisening to your mate?" Think of eever day as the first date and don't lose sight of that feeling.

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Lauryen Hill Speaks On Her Comeback

 

Lauryen Hill stopped to talk with Tv After Dark to talk about her reason for leaving, and her comeback. Excerpts below:

On Her Comeback
I think I’m ready to express myself again. You have to live life so you have something substantial to share or its kind of pointless and vain. I don’t think I ever did music for attention or to just be seen, I did it because it simulated me. I was excited about the challenge of the challenges of making music. I have a pioneer spirit and when you can’t do that because you feel a certain amount of claustrophobia, to me it felt a little counterproductive. So I needed to make my own space again.

On Whether She’ll release another album
Maybe. Maybe some new recordings. In terms of the context that they come out in, I’m free. I’m a free spirit. We are a real spontaneous group right now. We vibe out and we do things. I like immediacy in ideas and inspiration. And I like to capture that. It took me a while to find good people who were up to the challenge When I was younger, they use to call me an old soul, and it was important for me to find other old souls; both in music and the support team behind the music. It had a lot to do with me getting back to the very essence of why I made music in the first place.

On Her Music
To me [music] it’s transitional. It’s expressing the moment. And the question is do I capture that and give that to the public even though I may be past or beyond that woman. Does it still hold value? Is it still important to people even though I may be beyond that particular moment

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On Her Comeback
I think I’m ready to express myself again. You have to live life so you have something substantial to share or its kind of pointless and vain. I don’t think I ever did music for attention or to just be seen, I did it because it simulated me. I was excited about the challenge of the challenges of making music. I have a pioneer spirit and when you can’t do that because you feel a certain amount of claustrophobia, to me it felt a little counterproductive. So I needed to make my own space again.

On Whether She’ll release another album
Maybe. Maybe some new recordings. In terms of the context that they come out in, I’m free. I’m a free spirit. We are a real spontaneous group right now. We vibe out and we do things. I like immediacy in ideas and inspiration. And I like to capture that. It took me a while to find good people who were up to the challenge When I was younger, they use to call me an old soul, and it was important for me to find other old souls; both in music and the support team behind the music. It had a lot to do with me getting back to the very essence of why I made music in the first place.

On Her Music
To me [music] it’s transitional. It’s expressing the moment. And the question is do I capture that and give that to the public even though I may be past or beyond that woman. Does it still hold value? Is it still important to people even though I may be beyond that particular moment

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Lloyd Cut His Hair

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Lloyd cut off all that beautiful hair to bad ladies. Are loving it or hating it ??

 

T.I and Tiny Arrested

 

According to gossip source T.I and wife Tiny had lil brush with the law. The two were were arrested yesterday evening and booked for the alleged possession of a controlled substance. Law enforcement sources tell us L.A. County Sheriff’s deputies pulled over the multi-platinum selling rapper and his wife in a Maybach on Sunset Boulevard around 10:30PM. Deputies say they smelled marijuana, and after searching the vehicle they arrested T.I. and Tameka. The couple just got married on July 30 in Miami, and T.I. — real name Clifford Harris Jr. — is on probation after doing seven months in prison on federal weapons charges. We’re told T.I. and Tameka are in custody right now. Bail amount is $10,000.

(Update)

Reported earlier

the couple was arrested last night for possession of a controlled substance. The class of the controlled substance that was found included “methamphetamines and ecstasy”.

Both T.I. and “Tiny” were booked on felony possession of a controlled substance and were released early this morning.

 

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You can't dress up everyday

There comes a time in every ones life when they have to show up, or get real. You can only put on a front to someone for so long. Our hard shells began to crack and we're hatched. If your a routine egg your just a routine egg.In other words holding secrets from a potential mate will get you nowhere.

We tend to put on a smile when we meet someone new, but when it's all said and done you'll have to reveal you. Often we don't have much to hide, but you never know what that persons deal breakers are. I know it can seem hard to be yourself, or let down your guard. However, the sooner you get real the soon you will know if this person is truly for you.

Our flaws can sometimes out shine us if we don't work on them. If you meet someone and they don't feel that they are a work in progress than they're not in reality. Every day that you are given here on this earth is another day your given to better yourself. Try to focus on the things that will mate you a better mate.

Then when you get into a relationship you can focus on loving your mate. I'm not saying you should lay all your dirty little secrets on the table the first time you meets a person. However, you should have the intentions of being real, and trying to let that person in.

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New Trey Songz Video " Can't Be Friends"

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Trey Songz new video " can't Be Friends" explains a relationship that didn't workout, and now they can't be friends.  If you have something that special it does make it hard to continue a friendship with the person. Theen again this kind of relationship is not mint to be broken. Dish it out!

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Anyone can get married but not everyone can be married

Married to be, or not to be is the question? Marriage has become less and less important to people today. Is it because we have lost hope in finding the ideal mate? Maybe it's that people lack faith in the idea of two soul mingling for a life time? What ever it may be people are not getting married anymore, and the ones who are get married for all the wrong reasons.

Anyone can get married, but not everyone can be married. Marriage is not something you can try on for a day, and decide that it's doesn't fit. Marriage is that outfit that's been hanging in the back of your closet waiting for you to lose weight so that you can fit in it. In other words it is a life changing experience.

Life changing because you are entering into a world that is unknown to most. This where you grown up fast, learn about self, and rekindle your spirit. The day of our wedding should be a beginning of a new life for us. We should be looking for a life partner, not just a husband/wife. On the surface marriage may just be a business contract for some people with little joy in between.

Many believe that the wedding night is the beginning and end of marriage. Meaning there is nothing else to it but to do it after that. However, being married requires you to be conscious of those around you everyday. It is always going to be a work in progress. No one relationship is perfect, but every relationship can happy.

Here are some important things to think about when getting married.

1. Never try and change your mate because you'll only change yourself in the process.

2. Always try to focus on what you can bring to this person life not just what they can bring to yours.

3. Keep a good attitude because no one wants to be around a negative person.

4. Try to show off you best attributes, and work on your worst attributes. Remember true attributes are the things that are within us that no one can see such as, patients, kindness, and anything that makes us whole.

5. Have fun!

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