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Chris Brown On "20/20"

Chris Brown's interview with Robin Robert's on 20/20. He confirmed that Rihanna did hear his song he wrote for her "Changed Man." He said after he played it for her she cried when she heard it. It didn't seem to be many details from that night.

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Standing Up For Your Relationship

After reading all the crap I hear about relationship going down the tubes, and seeing all the divorces. I am realizing people are giving in to they're selfish desires. We don't believe in standing up for our relationships anymore. I hear people all the time tripping with they're mate the smallest things and walking out. People are getting married more and more for vain reasons. Where is the love and belief in your relationships?

Is anyone going to every understand that it takes two people to have any kind of relationship. Start standing up for your relationship by putting your ego aside and taking time to change. If your relationship is falling apart take the time to figure out what needs fixing. It seem as if more people are single than married these days.

Taye Diggs' New Baby

Taye Diggs' out for a stroll with new baby boy and mom Idina. His name is Walker and he is cute.

So cute!

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Tiger Woods Pre-Nup Payout

According to the Daily Beast Tiger Woods is negotiating with his wife Elin Nordegen about they're per-nup. He is offering her $5million of the top and $55 million to stay for two years. He is willing to revise they're pre-nup for and extra 55 million just for the sake of his image and indorcments. For more details go to TheDailyBeast.com

This is crazy the only thing I can say Is what ever happened to the love? It seems as if this whole marriage was all about money anyway.

Is It True That All Men Are Primitive?

Is it true that all men well inevitably cheat? Is it true they don't have control over they're urges? Maybe it's just programmed when they are born to cheat? Often you will hear men say "it is in a mans nature to love woman". This would lead you to believe that every man wants to sleep around even if doesn't. Maybe he thinks about it even if he do not act on it? We know that all men don't cheat , but if given the chance would he?

Sometimes when things are apart of your nature they are hard to control. However, if you take the hardest part of your nature and control it such as urges you become powerful. It's the same with woman and they're emotions the woman who gains control is powerful. I will ask is it worth giving in to your urges and feeling, and desires to lose power over yourself?  We shouldn't be a victim to our nature or surroundings. I challenge all men to gain power over themselves by controlling they're urges to cheat. This will set you apart from the rest and give you a power other men will never understand.

Pleasure P Is A Convicted Child Molester "Documents"

According to all the top gossip bloggers Pleasure P is a convicted child molester. There is court documents to prove it. According to Necolebitchie.com this is what went down.

A very close source to the group pretty Rick/ Pleasure P said today that the rumors are true, and in fact there is document to prove it. Apparently Blue star entertainment paid a nice sum to have the documents sealed in 2002. Here is what happened " when he was around 16 years old he was left alone with his niece and nephew and touched he penetrated  on several occasions.  There is more to the story to see entire post go to necoleobitchie.com

                                                  

Keyshia Cole

Keyshia Cole has confirmed that she is pregnant and is do in March 2010. She is said to be having a baby boy.

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Never go to bed unresolved

Couples fight all the time some more than others. However, a fight should never be left unresolved because it will only linger over to the next day. If you need to resolve a fight between you and your mate just take a moment to redirect your thinking. The way to redirect your thinking is to first realize your approach is not working. The next thing is putting your ego aside in order to think properly. Then you need to come up with a new approach.

You want to start by admitting that you are wrong for arguing in the first place. At this point you have they're attention, ask them if you both could take some time to cool down and talk later. This normally works and it also gives you both time to think things out. Never go to bed without making up or at least a good night kiss. An argument should never interrupt your sex life. A night of passionate love making will make you more open minded and help resolve the problem.

How To Get Her To Think Rationally And Less Emotionally

We all know that woman are more emotional than men. We bring lots of baggage into our relationships because of this. It is important for men to know that there is a way around this emotional woman your mate displays. Woman are not use to having to deal with there emotions in a realistic kind of way.  I am a woman and I know it may seem as if I'm coming down on woman. However, I am just trying to help us grow into the woman we truly want to be for our mates.

If we are going to achieve this we have to start being realistic. We may think that we are stronger emotionally because we express emotion. However, expressing emotion in a situation is not dealing with the problem but placing blame for the problem. Emotion without reality is never going to solve anything.

The best way to deal with your woman when she is being irrational, or emotionally driven is simple. You just need to first allow her to be emotion but still stand firm with reality. Don't allow her emotions to make you feel guilty, emotional, or misunderstood. We have to go through the emotions before we can see the truth. The reason this works is because most woman are not forced to focus on the rational mind appose to the emotional mind. 

Often when we began to cry or show emotion the problem is over looked or put to the side. Most men don't believe it can ever be different therefore, they don't have the patients to fix it. Be honest with her at all times and she will learn to trust your honesty in her emotional state. You have to be soft with your woman but firm at the same time for this to work. If you don't allow the emotions she will not pull it with you. Make her deal with reality. Remember to allow her time to come around on a situation. She may maintain her emotional state for a while but when she sees you are not giving in she will come around.

The breaking Point

Every relationship has it's breaking point or make it or break it point. This point in the relationship can be very trying and hard. Therefore, only the strong relationships will survive the storm. I am not speaking of a time when your not getting along with your mate or your fighting all the time.

The breaking point normally comes when everything is great between the two of you. The time when your so in love with each other. For example when she gets pregnant and you can't wait until the baby gets here, than it's here. A child will make or break a relationship because I have seen it happen many times. However, some people are able to weather the storm and get stronger as a couple. 

There are things that bring a relationship to it's breaking point. These things can very for different couples. Things like a death in the family, a new baby, cheating, the new house, losing a job, or someone getting sick. When things like this happens in your relationship this is when everything hits the fan. If your not mint to be together this is when it will come out. This is when love is not enough. 

There is not much you can do about the outcome except be honest with yourself. Try to listen to your mate so that you know what it is they need from you. These are the times that we get selfish and distant. Try to be open minded about the situation and consider all avenues. 

Maintaining Your Identity In A Relationship

 Have you ever heard the saying "I don't know who you are anymore?" The strain on your relationship can come from many things. However, one of the biggest causes of break ups is losing your identity in the relationship. Often we get so consumed with just making the relationship work we forget to enjoy it anymore. We began to worry about how to keep our mate happy along with all the many other hats we wear.

We forget about why we fell in love with each other in the first place. You have to maintain your identity in your relationship if you want to keep the spark. Try to remember who that person was you were when you met your mate. Where you in better shape? Did you cook more? Did you go out more as a couple? Also don't forget who your are as a person. I mean what makes you tick because this is the person that makes you into who you are. What was it that he or she liked about you? Try to bring that person back. If you lose yourself in your relationship you wont know who you are or what you want anymore. This then begins to start arguments that are unnecessary between the two of you.

Both people will become frustrated because no one understands what is going on. The both of you may have changed into these two people who are just getting by everyday. You don't want to live this way so find yourself again. The person you know is still there.